My fiancée demands a “hall pass” to have sex with other people

To have and hold – resentment for the rest of his life.

An engaged man said he felt “blindsided” after his fiancée asked for a “hall pass” to have sex with other men before their wedding next month.

The 28-year-old took to Reddit to address the dilemma on Monday, admitting he wasn’t sure whether he should call off his wedding after his bride-to-be made a raunchy proposal.

“Everything seemed great and mutual,” the man said of his 29-year-old lover of four years. “I was completely caught off guard by her stupid idea. I could tell she had been thinking about this for a while and was just waiting for the perfect moment to bring it up.”

To add insult to injury, the fiancée claimed her adulterous thoughts were a “healthy” way to get married.

“She also claimed it would help clear everything from our system,” the man added. “In the four years we were together, I never thought about being with anyone else, but it’s awful knowing she doesn’t feel the same way.”

“I’m not sure if she had a crush or just wanted a one-night stand,” he further admitted.

After expressing his disdain, the bride-to-be tried to walk back the idea. However, when he snubbed her, the damage was done.

Now the engaged man is left feeling “betrayed” and unsure if their relationship is on thin ice.

“Beyond the emotional pain, we have been living together for two years. We planned a full wedding and people would come to us,” he wrote.

“I wanted to try and work it out and maybe I was just overreacting. My friends thought I needed to cut my losses and move on.”

He canvassed neutral parties online for their thoughts and unanimously agreed to leave while he still could.

“Your friend is right, cancel the wedding, tell everyone why, cut your losses and move on,” one commented. “Breaking up and canceling weddings isn’t fun, getting divorced and sharing child custody is even worse.”

“Free passes are like crisps, you can never have just one,” added another. “Ending the relationship before the wedding may be inconvenient, but it’s much better than getting divorced in the future.”

“It’s over, walk away. She destroyed all trust in the relationship. No trust, no relationship,” a third suggested.